Archive for December, 2009

Think And Be… Santa

Tis the season to be… whatever you want to be!

It’s Christmas. Or to be politically correct, “The Holiday Season.”

Santa Claus. Sharing and giving. Parties and celebrations. Reunions and family. Gifts of all kinds. And in general a festive time. Often referred to as “the spirit of the Christmas season” or “the spirit of the holiday season,” it’s a time when everyone is wishing everyone else happy something or other. For about 30 days.

Then it’s back to business and life as usual.

My only bah-humbug about the holiday season is the length of it. Why can’t people (you and I included) be joyful and festive the other 11 months of the year? What does it take, or what would it take for everyone to be wishing everyone else some kind of “happy” the other 335 days. Where’s Santa Claus when you really need him?

The tragedy of Christmas and the holiday season is that it is so short lived.

Please allow me to give you my gift for this holiday season and for any season. It’s a gift that cannot be returned. It’s a gift that any corporate executive or employee is allowed to receive, regardless of the gift giving and receiving policy. And it’s a gift that, when you understand what the gift is, everyone in your life (including you) will benefit from forever.

THE GIFT IS: You are Santa Claus.

Once you realize that fact, and come to the understanding that it’s a permanent gift, you at once understand that Christmas, or the holiday season, doesn’t need a tag or a name. Rather, it’s a way of life.

Santa Claus, whoever the myth is, is most prominent and visible on Christmas Eve when he’s delivering toys to boys and girls all over the world. The question is what happens when Christmas is over? Does he stop being Santa Claus? No. He just goes into some form of hibernation until the next Christmas Eve.

The reality is that you are Santa Claus, and you can execute your power of giving, smiling, bringing joy to others, and in general being a person of Ho, Ho, Ho! every day.

Can you imagine Santa Claus waking up on the 24th of December and saying, “You know, I got a headache. I’m having a bad day. I think I’ll call in sick.” Not gonna happen. And as Santa Claus, you have the ability to perform the same way. You’re already buying the presents. My question to you is: Are you displaying the other characteristics of Santa Claus both at work and at home?

THE GOOD NEWS IS: When you’re Santa Claus, Christmas can be any day you choose. And my challenge to you is make it every day.

Are you jolly? Are you giving? How’s your spirit? And why does it only have to appear during the month of December, building to some crescendo of unwrapping presents on the 25th, and winding down by the 27th?

Ho! Ho! Ho!

Ho hum!

Humbug?

How do YOU view the season?

Some people see sugar plums. Others see crowds.

Some people see giving. Others receiving.

Some people see presents. Others see returns.

Some people see family reunions. Others see relatives they don’t like.

Some see gifts of joy. Others see gifts of obligation.

For me the holiday season is a happy time, and a family time. It’s a giving time and a festive time. But I don’t need a holiday to feel that way. My attitude is ALWAYS set on happy, family, giving, and festive. I don’t just celebrate Christmas; I celebrate life. So does Santa. And I hope you do too.

Ten Pages A Day… As Good As An Apple!

“See Spot Run.”

That sentence was from one of your first reading lessons.

“Look. Look. Look.”

That sentence was from one of your first reading lessons.

More than 100 years ago, The Scott, Foresman Publishing company created the immortal reader Fun with Dick and Jane. Millions of kids learned to read from those books — me included.

You learned to read at a very young age. It was fun.

Then came television, it was more fun, and your reading was cut in half – maybe more.

Then came beer, and less reading.

Then came job, and even less reading.

Then came marriage and family, and reading books converted to reading bank statements and insurance policies, and helping your kids learn to read from the very same books you learned from.

You get the idea. Many people, maybe even you, have substituted reading for other activities, pleasures, or necessities in life.

I believe it’s time to reverse that trend.

You have all heard the phrase, “Read to succeed.” I believe the phrase should be, “The more you read, the more you will succeed.”

• How much do you read?
• How much should you be reading?
• What do you read?
• What should you be reading?

Those are four compelling success questions.

Only you know the answers.

Here are a few more reading thoughts…
On book reports. Teachers asked you to do book reports for a reason. Book reports helped you talk about and think about what you read. Book reports helped you understand the impact of the book and generated thoughts and ideas about your new knowledge.
On tests. Tests, especially essay questions, forced you to clarify and elaborate on what you read. Almost forced understanding, especially if you were like me – cramming the night before.
On volume of volumes. It’s likely you read more books by the age of 12 than you read in your adult life. Why? Probably TV.
On speed reading. I am against it. You can’t read Atlas Shrugged (Ayn Rand) in a minute. You have to read every word. You read a book to gain knowledge and wisdom from the lessons and the ideas. You read for the experience and the pleasure. It’s not a race; it’s a journey. If you want to win, think tortoise, not hare.
On fiction or non-fiction. Novels are not as thought provoking or idea laden as non-fiction. I am prejudiced toward non-fiction because it’s more “how to” and because I write it. I recommend that you treat yourself to a novel or two a year. But if you read a book a month, the ratio should be ten non-fiction and two fiction a year.

The benefits of reading are short term and long term:
Read to enjoy.
Read to understand.
Read to get answers.
Read to strategize.
Read to clarify.
Read to see what others are thinking.
Read to learn.
Read to expand your knowledge.
Read to refine your thinking.
Read to impact your thinking.
Read to create an atmosphere of focused thought.
Read to change your thinking.
Read to create new thoughts.
Read to generate new ideas.
Read to achieve.
Read to win.
Read to earn.

Here are some of my personal reading tips from things I do as I am reading, and after I put the book down:
• I highlight as I read, but I don’t just underline what the author said, I take my own notes as I read.
• I write in the margins and enter my margin notes in an action file. I put thoughts and ideas in writing as soon as they occur.
• I can identify with characters, and characteristics. Most notably Holden Caulfield, he was the first. Then came Sherlock Holmes, Howard Roark, and John Galt. There are many others including, but not limited to. Bugs Bunny, Alfred E Newman, The Cat in the Hat, and Don Juan.
• I discuss to clarify. I talk about what I learned from reading to clarify and affirm my own thinking.
• I take action on things I want to try, or things I’m trying to accomplish.
• I gain insight. Especially when I read about creativity and thinking.
• I am inspired by those in the arts whose paintings, woodcuts, and photographs I admire.
• I adjust philosophies and thoughts when more credible ones emerge. When I read, I’m open to learn, and open to new ideas.

How does reading impact you?

Many people go to the library to read. Libraries are a great place to read and determine if the book is valuable enough to own. Bookstores are where you can purchase books to build your own library. Books are not just for reading; they’re also for reference.

The action plan is simple: Read ten pages a day. At the end of a year you will have read 3,650 pages. My bet is that those pages will teach you more, inspire you more, and earn you more, than the TV re-runs you’re currently watching.